Social Media

8 Idiot Mistakes in Social Media

Posted by Jessica Kizorek on October 25th, 2009 at 12:00 am

1. Obsess over Numbers  Sometimes bigger is better. Sometimes it isn't. Keep your sights on  making your tribe tighter.  Too many organizations worry about numbers  and not devotees.  Go for quality over quantity in your relationships.  What  matters is the depth of commitment and loyalty that true fans will deliver.   You're not hunting for eyeballs - you're gently converting nonchalant fans  into passionate enthusiasts.  

2. Don't Complete Your Profile
  People without a profile picture are suspicious.  Put a photo, a logo or a  cartoon.  Whatever. Once you chose the sites you want to engage in, you'll  need to sincerely become part of that network. Fill out your user profile like  a good little member to let everyone know you're not going anywhere.   You'll garner more trust when you fill it out completely with contact info,  photos, description and whatever other details are important to that  specific network.  Your clients won't engage with you unless you are an  active participant in the conversation.  Don't be afraid to tell people who  you are and what's important to you.  

3. Create Profiles Everywhere It's not necessary to plant your flag in every community on the web.  It's  probably a good idea to snag your name before somebody else does, but  that doesn't mean you have set up shop and fill out a formal profile.  Take  the time to find out where your clients are, and where they are most  actively listening to each other.  Make sure you'd be welcome there, and  not viewed as an intruder.  Focus your efforts in a few networks, or else  suffer from the painful Social Media Account Overload (SMAO). Keep your  eyes on giving your people what they want, where they want it.  

4. Enter Blindly With No Plan  A large percentage of companies are wasting their time on social  networks.  They are dabbling, exploring, and not producing a single lick of  value for the people they are trying to seduce.  Know what you want to  achieve, and form a cohesive strategy to achieve it.  Don't jump in before  you come up with strategic goals to measure your output.  What's your  intention?  Drive traffic to your website?  Increase readership on your  Blog? Increase attendance at your events?  Better conversion rates?  Whatever it is, set a benchmark and track whether you're getting a return  on your investment  

5. Be Inconsistent  I'm totally guilty of this one, so I'm going to take my own advice.  Don't  tweet 11 times in one day, then abandon Twitter for the next 31 days.  Be  consistent.  Post once a day.  Or on Tuesdays. People react to patterns, to  cycles.  A splotchy performance on a social network won't keep people at  the edge of their seat.    

6. Be A Spammer  There's nothing more annoying than receiving spam over social networks.   When I say spam I'm not talking about Viagra or Vicodin.  I'm talking about  blast invitations or announcements that a person sends out to their entire  network, with little consideration as to whether the recipient would be the  least bit interested. Sending every piece of content out to every person in  your mailing list will  label you as a spammer in the long term. Find out  which friends are interested in what. Start a spreadsheet. Identify which  friends want what.  Otherwise you'll be the little boy who cried wolf.  People  will stop listening.  Or worse – they'll block you.  

7. Assume that One Size Fits All  LinkedIn is not Facebook.  Twitter is not Blogger.  A one-size fits all  approach will have you look like an idiot to members of the network, and  you'll stick out like a sore thumb. It's like going to Saudi Arabia and acting  like you're in Las Vegas.  Dumb.  Every social network has it's own culture,  and code of conduct. They demand a unique method of interaction, and  being successful in one doesn't guarantee success in the others.  

8. Be a Sales Person "Hi.  Nice to meet you.  Want to buy my widget?"    That doesn't work in the offline world, and it's even a bigger flop in social  media.  You need to create relationships before you ask somebody to buy  your widget.  No one will listen.  Worse – they'll get aggravated.  That's like  a man who walks up to an attractive woman he's never met before and  says, "Hey hottie.  Wanna get laid?"  In the short term, get ready to be  slapped.  In the long term, you'll risk permanently damaging your brand.   Can you afford it?  Take some time to learn about the community and to  connect with people. Only offer your widget when people like you and are  receptive to your offer.    

Jessica Kizorek 
The Viral Pulse 
www.TheViralPulse.com   www.JessicaKizorek.com 
jessicakizorek (at) jessicakizorek.com 
Cell:  630.835.4811  

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